What a rich movie!—adolescence, parent-child relationships,
womanhood, manhood, family support, love, sadness, grief, American culture—and
delivering this feast through imaginative film technique. Like The Big Chill, relationships, individual
states of being, and personal conversations form the core of Mike Mills 20th Century Women (loosely based on his
own life). The title pertains to the 15-year-old protagonist Jamie’s (Lucas
Jade Zumann’s) world of older women guiding him—his 55-year-old mother Dorothea
(Annette Benning), his 17-year-old closest friend Julie (Elle Fanning), and the
24-year-old tenant in the house Abbie (Greta Gerwig). But the film is also
about 20th-century men—and in both cases American women and men—for our
particular culture and history have shaped us. The movie integrates old film
reels, TV clips, photos, memorabilia, and magazine illustrations to set various
eras: Dorothea’s ’30s and ’40s (Depression and WWII), William’s ’60s (hippie,
commune days), and the film’s 1979 period with the Talking Heads and other
clashing bands in the soundtrack, which includes in contrast Dorothea’s mellow
music of the past.
The film deftly handles bringing us
instantly into the souls of all the characters through changing voice
overs—Dorothea saying what giving birth to Jamie meant to her, Jamie saying the
same from his viewpoint, and the other characters, all of whom live in Dorothea’s
crumbling, Santa Barbara mansion, adding their life stories and perspectives at
appropriate times. While these voice overs educate us about the characters—in
the same fast staccato tempo of the film clips—we watch present-day action (teens
careening wildly in a bar or in a moonlit park) interchanging with the flashback
segments.
This periodic, fast-clicking of
images mirrors a camera shutter, and the fast motion gives the film a virtual
component, a contemporary, digitally manipulated look. Car scenes driving
California’s coastal road speed up like a video game, with psychedelic colors
tinging the landscape. Julie’s motif of climbing up the house’s scaffolding to
sneak into Jamie’s room each night, and then down the scaffolding the next
morning, has the same fast-motion, computerized look. Delightfully, we are
given snapshot epilogues for each character when the film ends, generally
positive outcomes, or as positive as “sad life” can get.
Such filming techniques add visual and
creative stimulation, but the film’s real focus and heart are in the people who
live in the bohemian household and ultimately form a loving, supportive family
to each other.
We are treated to fine acting that
penetrates our emotions, elicits our involvement, and makes us reflect, and
also laugh. Each scene is about “the individual”—his or her unique, baffling
experience in life that no one else can share despite the longing to relate and
be understood by another—the longing for interpersonal fusion that lasts. But
it doesn’t, it never can, because that’s life. Characters are the force in this
movie, and the actors ability to use their faces alone to reveal their deepest inner
workings is remarkable. Dorothea’s complex character—memorably portrayed in
Benning’s intense, brooding, cigarette-smoking face, parallels Jamie’s choice
in love, Julie, who won’t have sex with him because it would ruin their
friendship; both women are equally complex and unreachable, despite the tangible
love-energy in both these male-female relationships. Dorothea clinches this
similarity at the end of the movie when she says to Jamie, “Julie’s a
complicated woman to take on, I’m impressed in a way.”
The movie is about adolescence and
how parents and children exist in different spheres during those rocky,
self-discovery years, and when love and caring are present—as they are with
Jamie and Dorothea—how the two sides hurt as they try to communicate and accept
each other but without much success. We are shown how the moments of pure unity
and mutual understanding happen rarely and are to be treasured forever, for in
any relationship such transient communion is true to life, true to love, and we
can’t ask for more. In 20th Century Women,
the five characters know this truth, and that’s the sad tinge to their lives,
to all our lives. As Dorothea says to Jamie in their one moment of happy
closure: “I guess I just wanted you to have more—a happier life than mine.” A
classic parent wish.
Jamie is “raised” by women, but as
we make our way through the film we understand that Jamie also makes himself.
He is the one who wants to read Sisterhood
Is Powerful and Our Bodies Ourselves—it’s
not forced on him. He is the one who decides for himself to accompany Abbie to
her important cervical cancer follow-up meeting, and he sticks by her when she
gets the news that the surgery left an “incompetent cervix,” so that she
shouldn’t have children. He listens to Julie in bed each night as she relates
her sexual escapades and feelings. He asks her what an orgasm is like for
women. He takes the initiative in buying a pregnancy test for her and seeing
her through the results—negative. On several occasions he tries to get his
mother to open up and talk to him about herself: “Why are you alone? Why aren’t
you happy?” They are both caregivers but in different ways because of their
ages and roles. And Dorothea has difficulty sharing herself. Jamie, true to his
generation, has an easier time. When he explains his “errant” actions to his mystified
mother, he says, “I want to be a good guy, I want to be able to satisfy a
woman.” For any woman watching that scene, Jamie symbolizes the best in a twentieth-century
American man.
William, the hippie, ceramicist, house-renovator
tenant in his thirties is also a good and sympathetic man to women and part of
the household’s communal, loving support, but he doesn’t have Jamie’s special
depth. He’s partly along for the ride wherever it takes him, a free spirit, a
flower child. We see this in some of the movie’s funniest, theater-of-the-absurd
scenes, where Abbie plays the key role. When she goes to William’s room and
asks if he wants to fool around with her, and he says, “Really? . . . yah . . .
I do,” the timing is exquisite. This kind of hilarity happens again at one of
Dorothea’s regular dinner parties when Abbie makes everyone say aloud the
unutterable word “menstruation,” which leads to the semblance of a group
therapy session where some of the characters open up about their sex lives.
William butts in at the end of the surreal scene to say: “Jamie, remember, you can’t
just have sex with a vagina, you have to have sex with the whole woman.” Another
time, Abbie comes into Jamie’s bedroom to tell him about her drunken brawl at
the bar, and Julie’s head pops up on the other side of Jamie. Abbie tries to
block Julie’s eyes and ears as she whispers adamantly to Jamie: “You can’t
continue letting her sleep here if she refuses to have sex with you. It’s
disempowering.”
When mother and son have their single moment of pure
connection, Jamie asks, “Were you and Dad ever in love?” And Dorothea answers,
“Sure . . . or um . . . maybe I thought I was supposed to be in love and scared
I’d never be in love. I picked the best solution at the time.” Jamie gets his
answer, but it’s also an answer for all of us about the complicated relationship
of love. In this heartfelt, imaginatively created movie, we bask in eccentric
but real people and real moments—we experience ourselves in a timeless,
placeless way. But no matter when or where, love permeates.